Showing posts with label 80/20 rule. Show all posts
Showing posts with label 80/20 rule. Show all posts

Saturday, April 20, 2013

What I wore: Grape necklace & mixed print concoction

Today, yesterday actually I had hard yacka to do in the morning, helping in dad's business. So it was "never to be photographed tracksuit time" (& I ripped the tracksuit fabric on the leg!).

When I got home, exhausted, I was swearing to myself that I wasnt going to photograph anything I wore later that day.

But knowing that readers are depending on you (hahaha) gave me the strength to muster a very basic outfit. 





Basic to me means grab a few things within reach rather than go digging for cut or special stuff.





The cardi

Unless its the middle of a hot summer, I never leave the house without a topper. Usually its a jacket, but for a more relaxed feel, I'll grab a cardigan.









Poking around in my cotton sweater drawers, I found this cotton girl. She is about 18 years old and from the Adrienne Vittadini brand, when they had a store in Double Bay, called Pappouci Imports ("papoucci" is Greek for shoes & the business was owned by a very classy minimalist lady called Tina). Its 100% cotton & hand washable. 

TIP: Never dry clean pale natural fibres in silk or cotton, unless you absolutely have to. The chemicals in the dry cleaning solvents will turn their colour grey over time. Hand wash in wool wash or shampoo & roll in a towel to soak out the excess moisture. Then lay flat to dry.  

I paid a bomb for this cardi and wore it lots - the fact that I can still wear it today is pretty good going IMO.

Notice it is a mixed pattern knit? I was ahead of my time.
I love it when the garment has already done the print mixing for you - this tends to be a designer trait as it takes more effort & cost to design, construct an all inclusive mixed print.

Notice it also has windowpane checks which I adore. 

The challenge here is that I have gained weight since I bought it & as it was a short cardi to start with, I needed to find a top which would elongate my body (not shorten it even more).

So a relaxed "peplum" came to mind.....having the tee peek out about 7 cm under it, created length in my torso.....

The top



The red tee was from Kmart but I cut the basque on the sleeves and the collar, as well as the hem, so that they expose raw edges & roll up naturally. It gives it a more relaxed feel. 

Be careful when you do this, as you lose fabric. What I noticed was that losing fabric around the collar turns a crew neck into a boat neck. So I had to wear a bra with nice straps as they were on show!





As it is close to my face, it goes without saying that it is the right shade of red for me - a bluey red, not an orangey red.

The jeans

The easiest bottom by far is my jeans.
The only jeans I wear are Not Your Daughters Jeans.





They have the best slimming properties AND are the only brand I have ever found with a high rise which doesnt make them look like a 70s piece.

I grabbed the ones closest to me on the chair, no thought required.

Notice they are not skinnies, but straight cut. That's because my problem area is my thighs......

TIP: For a pear shape, skinny jeans will emphasize the curve  around the hips/thigh because the ankle is so much narrower than that part. So for a pear, it is often better to go for a straight cut, rather than a skinny cut jean.

The bling


When you dont have lot of time, bling is usually the thing you skip on...I decided to just grab one bold piece....this Max Mara "grape" necklace.





Paid a bomb for it from the MM boutique in Chifley, Sydney. Its heavy as. The balls are brushed matt silver colour (which is a base metal) and the length is adjustible. 

The "grapes" (as someone called it) further feeds my addiction to jewellery which had lots of circles or balls. I seriously love it. 

Arm party





My usual Bottega intercaccio ring as well as its 3 sisters, also in beaten intercaccio silver. I bought the siblings on ebay for $300, including the box, card etc. Definitely a favourite.

The bangle is a Hermes, in a burgendy red, bought from the store and well worn and loved.

The shoes

I wore the navy Tod's patent loafers, which cost a bomb at DJs but I have worn them to death.





In theory, the shoe alternative was a pair of red moccasin loafers. 





But I normally dont wear two pops of colour which are far way from each other (eg: bag & shoes, or bangles & shoes, or top & shoes). I just find its too disjointed that way.

If I wear two pops of a colour, I prefer them to be close together, eg: bangles & a bag, or a necklace & bangles, or a bag and bangles. 

So once again I stick to my usual keeping my shoes neutral or following the colour of the hem.

The moral of this post

Its a fact that most people wear 20% of their wardrobe 80% of the time. This certainly applies to me as I have alot of clothes/accessories. ie: My problem isnt that the styles I buy are inappropriate (they arent)...its that I have so many pieces in similar styles, that I forget to rotate.....

Taking these photos is making me pull out & wear things in that other 80% of my wardrobe.  






Sunday, June 12, 2011

The blink test

Ever been in a store where the shop assistants are saying the item looks great but you're not sure? You spend an hour umming & ahhing, you're confused, you try a gazillion angles....aagghhhh.

My rule - always walk away - if it takes this much trouble to decide whether its a "Yes", its a "No". However if you dont have this strength, the blink test will help you decide.

Anything that comes home with you cannot be an "ummm & ahh" nor an "it'll do" nor an "its OK". This will lead to a whole bunch of mediocre items that will spend more time in your wardrobe than on your back. Remember the 80/20 rule? We spend 80% of our time wearing 20% of our wardrobe....what an incredible waste of effort & money....

Any item that follows you home MUST be an "I love it", "its amazing", "I must have it", "I cant live without it".

Kinda like relationships...they dont get better over time.....reality sets in & nasty habits get revealed, raising the kids, mortgage, parents & in laws...well it gets worse, not better.

So what's the point of buying something that you think is merely average from the word go? You're hardly going to wear it....cost per wear (CPW) will stay high & you're wasting effort & money. I cant even put into words the impact on your confidence of having "a wardrobe full of clothes and nothing to wear".

Q: So, assuming you dont like my above rule (& haven't walked away), how do you tell whether the item is a winner or a loser?

A: Do the blink test

The blink test will help you determine the impact of an item & whether it's positive or negative.

Here's how -

Close your eyes, facing the mirror, wearing the item.
Keep them closed for 5 seconds (this is important to clear your head of thoughts & pictures).
Then open your eyes, staring at yourself in the mirror.
In that first second, what's the first thing you notice?

It is recommended that you:

Buy the item if your answer is something like: my face, any positive body part especially if its above the waist and upwards

Be wary of buying the item if your answer is something like: my belly, my hips, my thighs or any negative body part (especially if its below the waist) or downwards.

I use this test all the time. It works 100% of the time.

Its a double check of whether I am spending my hard earned money wisely - after all, if an item passes the blink test, its more like to end up on your back more than your wardrobe and hence CPW (cost per wear) will going down. How cool is that?